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       Home And School Education - Your Kids Can Benefit From Both! 
        by: Frank McGinty  
         
        
         
         
        Once, as a Learning Support Teacher, I made my way down to the annexe 
        that housed the school's History Department.  
         
        The annexe was about 100 metres from the main school building, down an 
        attractive, leafy hill.  
         
        On the way I was irked by two girls in front of me complaining about the 
        hill, the wind ruffling their hair, the distance from one classroom to 
        another, and so on.  
         
        I joined the History class with the moans and groans still ringing in 
        my ears. However, the topic of the lesson soon gripped me:  
         
        Life in Thirteenth Century Scotland.  
         
        The ordinary people in those days lived in squalid huts, unlike the nobles 
        with their heavily fortified castles. But even they faced many challenges. 
        Fighting was a way of life and the fear of attack preoccupied everyone. 
         
         
        In the cold, draughty, disease-ridden castles people who lived to forty 
        were considered old.  
         
        Not much scope for personal development and parenting projects there! 
         
         
        Bumpy dirt tracks served as roads and the trees that covered most of the 
        land made travel difficult. Schools and child education did not exist. 
         
         
        After the lesson I made my way back up to the main building. This time 
        I overheard another conversation - or to be more precise, one side of 
        a conversation.  
         
        A girl behind me chatted to her mum, many miles away on the outskirts 
        of the city. The small cellphone clamped to the girl's ear made it possible. 
         
         
        Times had certainly changed since the 13th century!  
         
        Not only could this girl travel many miles by comfortable transport every 
        day, but at the touch of a button she could chat with her mum.  
         
        This made me think again of the two I'd overheard on the way down. Unlike 
        their 13th century counterparts, they could walk safely on a dry, tarmac 
        surface and enjoy the benefits of a good education. Yet they moaned and 
        groaned . . .  
         
        Yes, teaching - and parenting - teenagers brings its challenges!  
         
        But if raising confident children is our goal, why not start early, and 
        help them develop a sense of awe and wonder. Help them realise how far 
        we've progressed.  
         
        Stress the benefits growing families enjoy today - benefits unavailable 
        to our predecessors, for whom life was hell.  
         
        Make your kids aware of the changes even since they were infants: iPods, 
        mp3s, DVDs, multiplex cinemas, online bookings, video cellphones - when 
        you think about it, the list is impressive!  
         
        And the downside: in a world saturated with resources and abundance, millions 
        starve. Yet all could be put right so easily!  
         
        Your children are young and impressionable, so true-life stories will 
        absorb their insatiable interest. Make this part of your home education 
        program, working hand-in-hand with their special school projects.  
         
        And it will pay dividends. Informed, appreciative children become confident, 
        tolerant, fair-minded and determined young people.  
         
        Personal development all round . . .  
         
        Happy parenting!  
         
         
        About The Author  
         
        Why do some parents and children succeed, while others fail? Frank McGinty 
        is an internationally published author and teacher. If you want to develop 
        your parenting skills and encourage your kids to be all they can be, visit 
        his web pages, http://www.frank-mcginty.com/peace-formula.html AND http://www.frank-mcginty.com/for-parents.html 
        
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